I no longer feel like I am lost. Its a new beginning for us, i hope she continues to feel i can change and not visit the other side. If she does visit the other side and doesn't find happiness, i will wait.
A new beginning, yes. The old marriage is dead and gone. There's no going back.
If she does find "happiness" on the other side, chances are great that it won't last. Something to keep in mind when you cut her loose.
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I have to thank everybody for their support and most of all to my inlaws, who was there for me through this ordeal. I hope I can make them proud.
Thank them kindly for being there for you, and then ask them kindly to not approach her regarding your relationship anymore. Additional pressure from them pushing her to "do the right thing" will not help you in the long run. Remember how she felt that you turned her own parents against her? Sure, it's just her perception, but you (and they) can put an end to that. Bust On!
Originally Posted By: jack3beans
Now comes the hard part. STOP involving them with any of this between you and her.
Seriously man, do not involve them, this will bite you in the asss in the long run.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
