I'm so sorry to hear this RegretfulLA. You were making so much progress. I would feel so hurt and devastated because it's as if he's choosing her over you. Your experience reminded me of what I went through before BD last year.

It's very frustrating because you can't force him not to go. Instead you can state your boundaries and follow through with them if he crosses them. And you did that. Good for you!

And if MC is to say he wants a D, don't assume anything. Go into it with no expectations. Also, make sure it's a promarriage MC. I really like mine and I can give you his name if your close to Pasadena. ;-)

Take care tonite and go GAL! You deserve it!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017