Also, remember what you said. You immediately started working on yourself with an IC when he first dropped the bomb way back when. Meanwhile, he's been stewing in his selfish ways.
It's best not to seek a R with someone who has learned nothing from this journey.
I wish you only the best! Take care of LaBug!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017