I've been doing much better at detaching, have even managed to not answer all his calls. Last night older D was at a sleepover and younger D really wanted to see H's new apartment, so she went to stay there. I went out with friends. She was going to stay with all day because older D had a workshop that she and I both needed to be at today. But around 11:00 this morning she wanted to come home. H brought her home and came in for a while. He asked me several times how my night went and if I "closed the place down", who was there etc. I was pleasant but kind of vague. He then wanted to know if all my friends now hated him, which I said no but some were worried. I told him that I was worried about his drinking and really hoped he would stop. He just nodded and I said I thought he should check out AA and that if he stopped drinking completely that all of this would be worth it and it would make him a better father. No real discussion after that but it was a pleasant visit. I guess as good as I could hope for for now.

Brokenheart71

Brokenhesrt71
Me 40 (for a few more weeks)
H 41
M 18 years
Ds 12 and 8
BD #1 12/09
R 2/10
ILYBINILWY Sept/12
He moved out Oct/12