Guys,

This feels impossible. Its been the day from hell.

Wife keeps bringing R up, I try to stop it but it just keeps coming round.

The funny part? Met OM wife in the mall (my wife works with her) and pretended all was OK. How screwed up is that?

Im at my wits end. Please tell me what I should be doing right now to put a stop to the quickening march to separation?

Im so angry yet I still love her and in some ways pity her.

This guy is 55!!! I am 37 and she is 36. Its so messed up I feel like I dont know if Im coming or going.

Sorry to sound so messed up but I feel all my progress in the last 2-3 weeks has been completely wiped out in one day.

Can this ever be recovered?