"Maybe you disagree with the idea that some women, maybe even the majority of women, prefer a man with a more alpha personality who takes the lead. If so, that's ok, since I don't believe there are any reliable statistics on this. James already indicated he was overly beta, so it seems working to man up may be beneficial for his marriage, but that's for him to decide.

"You're in no position to take the reins now!" means that I believe because his M is on shaky ground, it would be best to proceed carefully with any Alpha Man Plan. Clear enough?"

No, I don't disagree. I just didn't understand exactly what you were saying.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!