idk, even being open to C without angry spew monster appearing might be some clarity creeping in, at least for now. Oh, us guys typically are NOT too hip to counseling by default, so keep those expectations appropriately low...but you know that. I think you handled that whole sitch PERFECTLY from a guys POV, btw.
The ride? It may be an opening of his heart/brain a wee bit...my W (who is a very frugal person) insisted we drive separately to school conferences and activities for the longest time, doubling our gas cost. That has stopped this fall, though the riding together can be "interesting" in a less than good way...lol...I like to have fun (guy, big old pickup truck, shortcuts through fields, you get the picture...) and she just isn't into fun very often, oh well. So, as always, expectations low, just be YOU...
Rock on!
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
