I know that you DB'd for about a minute before you started criticizing the concept. I know that you post your opinions to everyone else here on this board, but yet don't keep an active thread on your ongoing situation. I know that when you do post about your sitch and are criticized that you clam up and don't say a word for weeks.

But whatever Harrier. You sound like a pretty angry 'dude' yourself. But hey, we wouldn't know what that is about since you don't bother to tell us what is going on with you. To each their own.

I don't have to justify my feelings to you or anyone else on this board. I post them because I use this place to express feelings that I sometimes don't in my everyday life. I use this place to document my personal journey.

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To quickly answer a question that Eric posed.... No, the anger is not consuming me. I have admitted that it is there, in the background. A couple of times, over several weeks, OM has been a topic of conversation between W and I over this job thing and the text/emails that he has sent. I get flashes of anger during these times, but I really am able to quickly put them aside. I just look forward to the day that all of the loose ends are tied up and all of this is completely behind me. But it certainly isn't consuming me.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce