i think you know in your heart under the pain that will pass that you were really ready to hear these things - else you would not have initiated the conversation. As everyone has said here - you have been the leader in the example that we all wish to set for our selves in how strong and self-reliant we can ultimately become.
I am so sorry that you had to - after all the work you have done - still listen to the script - but it is his script not yours - and we will watch and follow proudly how you continue to write yours.
There is a certain complacency, that I have always perceived in your h's demeanor, ever since I started reading your posts. and it also came through in how you described the r conversation you've just had with him. There is, I think, only one solution to complacency - and lord knows us LBS's know what it is LOL
Just my thoughts..
Meanwhile - I wish for you only more and more peace and self-focus and success at continuing to turn only to yourself, and to keep becoming the "goddess" of your own life. You are sure to receive all that you deserve if you are open to it.
Much love to you, dear courageous friend who has always quietly been there for me
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
