Quick update...

H took kids out to breakfast and OW was brought up a few time by my kids...they are upset and angry too. They asked H if their cousins (his brothers kids) knew he had a girlfriend and his response was that he doesnt care who knows.

Does this mean that it will be harder for them to ever break up since there is no longer any secrets? He is obviously very proud of having her.

After they got home I received a random text message about an hour later. Today is his birthday and this is what he texted me:

"Was sad that you didnt take the kids to at least get a me a card...I did all that for your even though the situation was much the same. I deserve that at least"

Now, on my birthday back in Sept, he drove by a card and a $100 gift massage and left it in the mailbox from HIM. It had nothing to do with the kids. So, do you think he was upset I didnt have a card for him? I dont think he deserves anything right now for all this hurt and pain.


M:36 H:36
D14, D11, Baby due in March
M:15
T:18
Met OW: 3/12
H Moved out: 8/12
Legal Sep: 11/5/12