Avoid all relationship talks for now. Neither of you are in a place to make rational decisions or comments. If she brings it up just say you need time to figure things out, and go do something constructive.
Meanwhile, decide what your boundaries will be. Boundaries are not demands and she has no say in what yours are.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
