Originally Posted By: Tumbling

Maybe there are other guys whose wives have them on a short rein and H doesn't want to be viewed as under the thumb, like UF says.
On the other hand, do guys respect the guy who doesn't consider his gf/W?


Yep this is were my balance went of, I got to far to one side. It felt like me standing up for me, but then I realized I wasn't showing her enough respect. The last years I still did some of my own things but also encouraged her/supported her in doing hers.

Your last sentence in the quote is so true.


Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.