Maybe there are other guys whose wives have them on a short rein and H doesn't want to be viewed as under the thumb, like UF says. On the other hand, do guys respect the guy who doesn't consider his gf/W?
Yep this is were my balance went of, I got to far to one side. It felt like me standing up for me, but then I realized I wasn't showing her enough respect. The last years I still did some of my own things but also encouraged her/supported her in doing hers.
Your last sentence in the quote is so true.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.