My H said something similar in our talk. He likes being able to do what he wants, when he wants now that he's alone. He also said that at the beginning of this. I had to say I thought I had done the opposite and encouraged him to do things he enjoyed, with or without me.
His reply, "Then maybe it was just my feelings about it."
I should have asked the question "Help me understand how I kept you from doing what you wanted to do?"
Maybe what he really wanted to do was nothing.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
