I should point out at this point he is spending one evening a week with them. So last time they actually spent any time with him was last Sat when I went to the concert. He left when I got home about 12.
Then the week before was his birthday and they spent about 4 hours with him.
So this is really becoming a huge problem for them. He is unavailable. Basically he will say I will take them anytime, see them whenever they want but in truth he never seeks them out or contacts. He has also told them he will call and never does. In a nutshell he is turning into a deadbeat dad very very quickly.
