Thanks DawnMarie! I looked over your sitch the other day but haven't caught up. I agree they sound very similar but then so many of the WAS have tons in common.
Updating- I am pretty calm today except for anxiety over the children. H has not called yet and it is almost noon. So basically, they want to go visit and he has so far made no plans. I feel like I should call and see what is going on and if he is going to get them today. But then the other part of my thinks that is trying to "fix" both for him and them and I should just let it go. Let him be a big boy and deal with it as it comes. However, they are hurting. Want to see him.
One thing last night that upset me. We were heading into town to trick or treat and we passed H on the road. I thought maybe he would turn around or something so he could see the girls in their costumes but no. It was weird because we literally passed him and then turned into the gas station.
I could tell he had been to the store as there were bags all over the seat. I dunno. I guess he was in a hurry to get home though. There is always the possibility he didn't see us I guess but I doubt it.
What do you guys think? Should I call or just let it go?
