So yesterday thanks to Labug and MKB, I finally admitted that to be happy in any relationship, we have to be true to ourselves.
So this thread I am dedicating to working on being authentic (the real Tumbling aka Canada Girl) all the time - including around H (I have trouble with this, I notice I change my behaviour to his moods thinking it's all caused by me even when I havent seen/done/said anything)
From now on when I think about reaching out for H due to some triggered emotion, I am going to say to my Self - what would CG do? - as well as come and vent it all here of course!
Wishing everyone a great weekend. I am out for an early supper shortly and then to the opera,will be a late one so girlfriend is staying over. Sunday I need to do some work and go to the gym (not been since mid September). I hope posting that here will make me go!
