bit of a disaster really.....wife came home early from work the other night and basically confronted me over R and what I'm currently doing.
said we were now acting fake with each other and it all felt wrong.
she is adamant that as far as we are concerned its over, yet she still has no exit plan and we are still being fine with each other.
It descended into me asking for the same chance that she has given me over the last 2 years. big mistake!
It's now 2 days later and I am just sticking to my gameplan.
don't think I can do anything else really?
feedback appreciated.
thanks.
The truth is our wive's can leave at any time. The sooner you realize and accept this as fact, the sooner you can properly take care of yourself and calmly stay on your DB path.
Be cool and confident, and concentrate on your own life. Once you decide that you'll be fine on your own if it comes to that, this becomes easier to do.
Stay on course and keep posting. There are no magic words or actions that will instantly change her mind, so don't waste your time looking for them. The only thing that will change her mind is time. Time for you to hunker down for the long haul, my friend, and quietly allow her to see the new man you can be.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
