I was in the same shape as you....it took my W two years to leave...and then she had to have her parents pay for everything..she has no real job they just pay for everything; I think it is kinda sad...
I think your W is waiting for you to make things happen for her...just sit tight and be right....know that in the long run this will be a good thing...it can't feel great to be in a relationship with someone who has treated you as she has for the last few years...very little intimacy...etc...get out and move....you will feel better..take care of yourself. Join some clubs meet some new people...
