so a quick update......

bit of a disaster really.....wife came home early from work the other night and basically confronted me over R and what I'm currently doing.

said we were now acting fake with each other and it all felt wrong.

she is adamant that as far as we are concerned its over, yet she still has no exit plan and we are still being fine with each other.

It descended into me asking for the same chance that she has given me over the last 2 years. big mistake!

It's now 2 days later and I am just sticking to my gameplan.

don't think I can do anything else really?

feedback appreciated.

thanks.