The other day I remembered a conv I had with X while we were still together. It was about how we fell for each other.
She told me how : One of my traits was that I was independent, I could talk or flirt with girls, but I could also wonder of and do something else. I wasn't rejecting, I just didn't NEED anyone. If they were into me great, if not I didn't really care.
When we broke up I fell apart and got needy. Then I remebered our convo and realized that I have to keep working on my detachment and growing more independant again.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
