Bug, you are such a strong woman. Your head and heart are in the right places. I am sorry this is happening to you. Even though he's been gone all this time, it still hurts.

I agree with what jks says. Your H thinks he's doing you a favor but really, if he wants to move on he should just move on. And then you will be able to as well, in time.

big hugs.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page