it's draining, yes, but you are making great progress! You are talking about your R, working on your R. It seems clear to me that he's interested in at least trying to work it out, but also feeling self-protective right now, which is what's behind the hesitation. He's there every day, you're communicating every day. You took a big step by telling him how you felt. You were vulnerable with him and that is scary.

Keep at it Vero.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page