Wife is packing for her trip tomorrow, she is in a very defensive mood. I asked her if she wanted any help packing up the car since its cold outside to let me know and I got a snippy "no".... Lol...
Me thinks she is hoping that this trip will give her the justifications in her mindto break our wedding vows but she is saying she "hopes it will give her clarity" and the support I am showing her in going is really messing with her..
Then she asked what my plans were for the weekend and I rattled off a bunch of things and she got even more distant. The hardest part for me is to not initiate contact with her over the weekend...
You really need to give her space, she knows how you feel about the situation. Do not text, call or try to get a hold of her while she is gone this week. If she calls, text, etc, I would still not answer back right away.
Get her wondering what you are doing, its always good to be mysterious and not available.
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