I guess I can be here now 2

[MrBond]

Actually I do know you very well. Your story isn't that unique.

So you got your H back, which was your wish, why curse DB? It gave you what you wanted.

You must've known that there was a possibility he was sleeping around. The problem with dealing with this lies with you. You're not going to want to hear this, but even in your situation, YOU can be saved as well as your H.

So go ahead and vent, but don't go cursing the program because it got you your H back which is what you asked for. You don't have anyone else to blame but yourself. Take responsibility for a change. If you don't, it doesn't matter what relationship you're in. The exact thing will happen again.