Right, because I made the claim that I'm the only one going through this.
Oh, and I've never taken any advice from anyone here either.
Ridiculous.
I'm just saying, for me, sleeping with her was crossing the line. It always was. That has never waivered.
And for those that think that they can forgive as long as certain things didn't happen (and I'm pretty sure we all have those boundaries), DB has now just made me more angry because I put so much time, faith and energy into a program that if I knew then what I know now, I wouldn't have invested in.
Not to say it didn't work. It worked. Beautifully. He came home, we reconciled, which was my goal.
But now I have more evidence of what happened. And had I known that at the time, I wouldn't have wasted my time.
But thanks for being judgmental. Bc you know me so well and all.
