Well, she came back home from her solo vacation, so that's a good sign, right? laugh Even brought me a gift too.

And yes rky, she was wearing her ring, both in pics at the resort and when she came home.

Plenty of good vibes as we went through her pictures and she explained the details of the resort, her room, and her daily activities. The place looked wonderful and she had a great time. We've been to many higher end resorts together over the years, and from what I've seen and heard of this place I'd rate it among the top. (Zoetry Riviera Maya, in case you just reconciled with your spouse!) It really is a shame she didn't take me along this time... oh well, hopefully some time soon!

Went out for dinner and then grocery shopping tonight, still getting along great. Yet she doesn't wear her ring when with me. Must be sending me a signal that she's still not in. Still retiring to the quest bed too. That's ok for now. I know this may take a while, but at least I'm as certain as I can be that there's still no OM. Well, besides a fantasy one anyway. Let's roll this coaster!

Oh, and the day before she left I gave her Andrea Bocelli concert tickets for her birthday. I will make it clear to her that they are hers to use as she sees fit. The show isn't until December, lets see if she asks me to join her!


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl