So your H is messing around but you get mad at the people helping you to try to get through this.

Real classy. Good luck to you and I'm sorry you're going through this.

Oh and by the way, just a guess, but I don't think you're the only one who has had to deal with a cheating spouse.

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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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