eyesopen, its funny I was actually just sitting here telling myself that very thing. It doesn't matter how I feel. It does feel better that I have support from people though. My IC told me something similar, she said that she agrees that none of what we were going through seemed like a reason to divorce but if it's what she wants, sometimes people are just checked out. That is ironically frustrating to me but I do need to do a better job at detaching. Like I said before, most days it isn't a problem for me. Today was just another hard day for me I guess since I was moving more of her things out. Thanks for the reply!
Me - 32 Wife - 31 No kids Married - 3 Together - 6 "I need space" - July 2012 Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012 Separation - September 2012