I'm ok thanks. Leaving on our cruise tomorrow which I am grateful for. H has resigned from his job. It has been an extremely difficult decision for him. He was finding the hours and stress too much, which also contributed to problems in our personal life as you know. I am afraid he has taken it very hard.
He has my full support. We will get through this. I am currently concerned for his mental well-being. I believe he was suffering from depression anyway and I think he could slip further away. I have made him aware that if the feelings of lethargy and exhaustion don't subside in the next few weeks, he must seek some help. He agreed.
Hope all you guys are doing OK. Am always thinking of you. Thanks for all the kind words. Will speak when I return.
Wow, Gal, that's huge news! I hope this is a turning point for your family. I know there a lot of obstacles in the way but I'm so admiring you for backing your H 100%!
I hope this cruise provides some time for clarity, reflection and beginning of healing for your H and you, thus the whole family.
Wishing you the best on this vacation. You are gonna look fantastic, whether H says so or not!!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
Enjoy your cruise. Rest, relaxation and a change of scenery are what you need to refortify yourself.
I hope that your h will seek professional assistance w/his depression in the very near future.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
