Took me long enough. I think it comes with time, realizing my value is not defined by my wife. It is all part of detachment.
Also read another great post by Sandi2 about trying to be friends. I keep asking myself why would I want her as my friend right now. I know I control myself and myself only. Although I do think as far as my r with, I need to follow her lead right now. If she is engaging then I engage. If she is distant, then it is simply a hey thanks for dropping the kids off, good bye. Pretty much what everyone has said since I started reading this forum.
I think we as LBS are in as much off a fog as the WAS are. It is almost a race to see who can come out of it first.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
