help supper confused

[Just A Guy]

For me it was to figure out what I did to contribute to the sitch.

Then I worked on those things while detaching from my W (still working on this).

Next thing I had to do was forgive myself, let go of control (I am/was a control freak)

Lately I have been surrounding myself with constructive projects. I am slightlymysterious while being supportive and loving still... I have shown the role of moved on spouse as well as my willingness to reconcile if she decodes that.

Now I will detach more and finally wait for an opp to piece back together. That being said I am ready IF piecing doesn't happen to move on and still be happy with who I am.