Realistic Optimist Hard At Work

[Just A Guy]

Wife is packing for her trip tomorrow, she is in a very defensive mood. I asked her if she wanted any help packing up the car since its cold outside to let me know and I got a snippy "no".... Lol...

Me thinks she is hoping that this trip will give her the justifications in her mindto break our wedding vows but she is saying she "hopes it will give her clarity" and the support I am showing her in going is really messing with her..

Then she asked what my plans were for the weekend and I rattled off a bunch of things and she got even more distant. The hardest part for me is to not initiate contact with her over the weekend...