Ok. I just have to throw this out here, because just when I think I've got a good handle on this MLC thing, XH does something weird.
I just find this odd, and well somewhat annoying, I guess he's just got air for brains now. I mean it's getting comical now, but it still makes me shake my head at the way he does things.
XH tells children LAST week that he will be taking one weeks vacation this up coming NEXT week to rest his body and bones because he's having back trouble and foot trouble. This is nothing new. He's had severe back, feet and leg trouble for years.
At the time he tells the girls of his vacation, He asks D9 when they want to spend the night during this week of vacation. She says she doesn't know. He asks D9 again today and D9 says wednesday and thursday.
I get a text from XH today and he tells me " Am off all next week for vacation not sure what 2 nights are best for the girls".
Well I decided, I was picking when they were going to stay because Im long overdue for going out with friends and having fun. So I replied " friday and saturday night". An hour later I get " sounds good".
Ok now....here's the deal. If he wanted a solid answer and decision, why didn't he just ask me in the first place? D9 tells him wednesday and thursday. He then tells me he doesn't know when a good time is as if he hasn't even discussed it with them, So then I say friday and saturday.
I mean even the girls are confused and annoyed. He still focuses itinerary's with D9 but won't discuss it with D13.
I know it's stupid that I even get annoyed with this.