We are talking about on another bbs that when the male becomes the "nice one" it turns women off.
That when he goes back to the hunter who goes after what he wants, who may cheat - who is desireable to others, that the situation acts right and he will have regular sex.
Many of the SSM'ers are stuck in a position where they are waiting for the other to move, trying to piece together the right set of actions and words to get the LD spouse to respond.
They might not respond until they see you are a viable material on the market and they will hold onto what is "theirs".
[censored]. So those that have got beaten all the way down where there libido is drained, to where they have little hope of sex in the future, will stay in that position unless they go get it from somewhere else.
So being jesus like in behavior will NOT get you laid in 99% of cases. My statistics may not be perfect, but you get the point.
Being a sexual predator, who gets what he wants, WILL get you laid and have people wanting to be loyal to you.
