The crack in my perfect life...

[Sweetbriar]

Thanks for the answer about Birthday. Our 15 year anniversary is on the 21st of this month too...but I have no intention of getting any gift, card or asking for dinner. He is actively with OW, and to my, that means I need to stay far away.

Received random text today that said "just checking in to see if you're feeling ok?"

I didnt respond...maybe I should have...but I just dont understand why he even cares how Im feeling. Honestly, I feel like crap, but Im not saying that and I dont want to say how great I am feeling so I just chose to say nothing. Was this right? I think "lovingly detaching" would have been to answer, right? Is not answering being cold? Since when did a simple question from my H bring so many questions?

If you yell and scream at someone one day, and tell them how awful they are...why do you care if they are feeling ok? I guess maybe because of the baby???