So when she tells my friend that she just wants out, doesn't like anything about me, can't stand me, doesn't love or care about me, won't ever be intimate with me, and will never take me back it's mindreading? Or "don't believe anything they say and less than 50% of what you see"?
She doesn't pay for the car. Amazingly, yesterday when I told her I had no cash for gas she was able to get gas...when I thanked her for getting gas she said, "I borrowed it. Not borrowed since I don't have to pay it back" but I honestly don't know if I heard the end correctly. I didn't ask any questions. I was trying to be that "kind helpful friend" and a "father-figure" (180's) by allowing use of the car to get the kids around in the cold but when she's running around doing fun stuff for herself she can figure out how to fill the gas tank. Part of the trade-off too is that she's using the car to grocery shop for everybody, including me...so I'm trying to find balance.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
