I loved her and wanted to help but that would have driven her away even more.
I know EXACTLY what you're saying here.
Originally Posted By: NTX_Dad
Its interesting to hear our observations about your W. Compare that to your new life. What a difference.
I think one of my biggest fears has become one of going back to the way it was if we were to ever R. TBH, I think she finds the new life attractive, but she would have to be on board with it. When I get anxious about the prospect of losing the momentum on the new life, I remind myself that, as far as I know, she still wants a D. In a way, that calms me down. It's not that I want a D, but I defintely don't want to go back to the old life.