I think at this point in my sitch and my development, I want to be sure that in my next R, I am emotionally mature enough and have enough self awareness to give my love in a way that is needed to the person I am with. And able to recognize the love that is being given to me without judgement.
I think I failed to see when my H was giving me love.
I also agree though, with your last point about being able to state feelings in disagreement. That would be huge. And really beat the 'huff and walk off' dance that I was used to.
Thank you for the silent auction ((((( )))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
