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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use? jzoom #2295653 11/02/12 09:05 PM
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DaddyLongShanks Member D Joined: Apr 2010 Posts: 2,257	Originally Posted By: jzoom When she told me about going to her dads tonight I should have just said, "alright, thanks for giving me the heads up about the suv." Your in the microanalysis phase where you analize everything she says and does, essentially seeking validation. Most of us have found it was not productive, and you get yourself deeper into a bad space with the WAS. When you are detached, you will be calm and not microanalyzing things, letting some things GO, so they settle down on their own.

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What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/27/12 06:58 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Cadet	09/27/12 10:31 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/28/12 02:31 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/28/12 03:44 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/28/12 04:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/28/12 07:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:45 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:52 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:59 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 03:28 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	09/30/12 08:13 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	09/30/12 08:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	longrun	09/30/12 09:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 01:49 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 02:35 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 03:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	unbidden	10/01/12 03:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 04:27 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 04:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/01/12 06:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 07:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 07:11 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/01/12 07:31 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 07:32 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 10:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/01/12 11:05 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/01/12 11:25 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/02/12 02:32 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 05:55 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 07:08 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/02/12 07:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 07:57 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Cadet	10/02/12 09:22 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/02/12 09:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/02/12 11:30 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 12:50 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 01:25 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 03:18 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 03:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/03/12 06:28 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 07:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 07:49 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/03/12 09:20 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/03/12 10:17 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/04/12 12:23 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/04/12 01:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:20 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/04/12 04:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/04/12 06:00 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 02:58 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:58 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 09:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 09:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 10:23 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 10:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 10:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 10:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/06/12 12:48 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/06/12 03:13 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/07/12 03:06 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/07/12 10:50 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 12:42 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	sandi2	10/05/12 06:06 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 06:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/05/12 07:30 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:33 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/05/12 08:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/08/12 01:03 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 01:24 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:19 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:22 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 04:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 08:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 09:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 09:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/08/12 09:52 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/08/12 10:40 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/09/12 12:26 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/09/12 01:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/09/12 04:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/09/12 04:01 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/09/12 06:05 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/11/12 01:28 PM
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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	someguy1233	10/11/12 02:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	LoisB	10/11/12 02:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/12/12 09:02 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/12/12 09:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/13/12 03:54 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/14/12 11:08 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/15/12 12:27 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/15/12 04:36 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 01:48 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 03:42 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 05:43 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 05:56 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 06:34 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 06:51 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/16/12 07:53 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 08:12 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 08:35 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 08:39 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/16/12 09:46 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/16/12 10:04 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:02 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/17/12 12:14 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:17 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/17/12 12:26 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 12:28 AM
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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/17/12 01:45 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/17/12 04:38 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/18/12 04:02 PM
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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/26/12 08:37 PM
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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	Grateful	10/29/12 08:03 PM
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Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/29/12 09:37 PM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 01:27 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	MrBond	10/30/12 01:38 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	jzoom	10/30/12 02:33 AM
Re: What should I do? Which technique to use?	AnotherStander	10/30/12 07:00 PM
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