Mid text exchange I told her to let me know if she needed help. She text back we cld discuss. I left it at that, if she needs me she will ask. She has a couple of friends helping her and I am keeping the main household going and looking after S whilst she gets organised, which W does show appreciation for.
Still no shouting! But W mum getting on W nerves now interfering with the move! W taking offence because she thinks MIL talks to her like she's stupid! Points out the obvious. W still carries a lot of anger for her mother from childhood. It keeps creeping out occasionally.
Getting along fine with W and just letting her do her thing. Not looking forward to the actual move tho! But I am starting to picture post S without as much negativity and it will help with detachment.
