Quote: I need to look my best, put on a good smile and try to make this work.
this thinking that YOU HAVE to make this work is going to put lots of pressure on YOU! It's a trap. You can't MAKE anything happen it is a choice he has to make. You can only put forth a beautiful, caring, considerate, friendly, positive thinking, encouraging woman.
Go on your trip with the mindset that you are simply going to enjoy your time with him. Don't think about the d, or your r, or what he's thinking....just let go and BE/HAVE fun!
Have fun...let go of the worries about your r for ONE day. Be kind, be considerate and giving....be the woman you WERE before your h came along to complicate things.
You can do this...take a deep breath and let go! Oh, and don't defend yourself...just agree with him that things are bad when he starts going down that 'you have an agenda' talk. No sense arguing with him cause he only thinks he's right.....right now!
