Need a little advice...H emailed me today and asked for my stuffing recipe. Asked if it was a recipe or was it in my head. I haven't answered him yet.
That recipe is my own creation and I came up with it taking all of my H's likes into consideration. It really was tailored made for him. How soon he forgot that after 27 years of being up early with me while I made Thanksgiving preps.
Maybe this is very petty of me, but there is no way I'm even trying to write it down and give it to him so either ow can make it for him or he can make it to share with her and her family.
I want to come up with a truth dart when I tell him 'it's in my head' and I'm not about to give it to him. Let ow come up with something for him. Too bad she doesn't cook.
This just seems to me that he has a lot of nerve even asking for it. Remember he's been gone 3 years and even though I'm still standing I have no problem with putting up and enforcing boundaries. I still love him but am no longer in love with him. I just want to say something that will get my point across that he's the one that made the choice to leave and those creature comforts are no longer available to him without seeming vindictive. I truly don't feel that way, but for me, this has crossed the line.
