Yesterday my husband and I decided to take a break. I needed to think about what I want and he was "confused" about how he feels.
Today....
My husband called accusing me of calling his POSOW and hanging up on her. That SHE read MY phone number off her phone to him. I said I don't even know her number. YES YOU DO. YOU HAVE FRIENDS IN COMMON SHE TOLD ME SO. I said so, we have friends in common big deal, I am NOT discussing her with them. SHE SAID YOU DO. Oh, then it MUST be true huh? So then I said why don't you ask to see the log on her phone? He said she "dismissed it" so there's no record. I said really? then how did she read it off to you. That stumped him. Then he said she wrote it down I guess. I then said btw, when you "dismiss" a call, it shows in your missed calls log it doens't get deleted. Stumped him again. Then I called him back to say I now had in my hands the detailed call records from 10/1 thru today at noon. He said so, it takes 3 days to show on a bill, she already told me that you would try that. I said oh really... 3 days she said? Then how come I can see right here that you called my house phone 2 times before calling me here? Stumped him again.
I told him I hoped the two of them psychos were happy together and lived a long and crazy life together but I am bowing out of this madness now.
He said I believed you. I said, no you didnt. And I am SOOOOO glad I had proof she's crazy. I said still think she's worth it? He said don't do that. Whatever.
I doubt he will be back. I just handed him to her. Somehow she will convince him my "logs" are a lie. It's what she does.
I highly doubt even THIS will get him out of the fog.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
