Thanks Snodderly for your reply.

I am responding right away but I have no idea when it will show up frown

We have 3 kids S 17 whho is very straight to the point with his dad and has no problem letting his thought be known to him. S13 has always been extremly close to his dad like 2 peas in a pod, they both have ADD so they always clicked...but now hes the one he pushes away the most. D9 just wants to be daddy's little girl so she still calls and text him alot and she seems to be the only one he still tries to stay close to...is it because she doesn't question him?

He takes them out to eat now on his 2 nights aweek or when he fits them in, I stay out of his way when hes here or I go out. He has had them 2 overnights since he left in mid-august by HIS choise NOT MINE, but yet he tells people that I'm keeping his kids from. Wtf?

As for spending he's been spending ALOT to impress his welfare recipient/stripper but I know better than anyone how much money we have.

P.s D9 called him at 10:30am and he was still not at work...this is not him either to neglect his job.


M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending