^^ Good stuff from JAG smile

Originally Posted By: linz1822
today is a really bad day it is my exs birthday and I feel like he can jut throw me out and is done with me.


That's why you need to detach. If you're detached, he can't "throw you out" of anything because you're leading your own separate life!

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I now need to find a new counselor because mine is starting to trash my ex which is not what i want at all


Sounds like it. You might consider replacing your IC with a DB coach.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57