I'm just coming to realise that MKB.
There's something about living w s.one that really mixed me up
We discussed this in an earlier thread of mine - how "wifey" expectations that i didn't even realise i had until i lived with H - screwed me up.

I so don't want to lose CG ever again that I need to really sort out what I want and not feel i have to fit w others' expectations.

And that as long as I am happy then that's all that matters
Thanks for popping in.