Just received this text, I appreciate your kindness and thoughtfulness. I can not however pretend when the kids aren't around that are arrangement on paper is fair. I am going to start looking for a day job. I have to be able to support the kids somehow and trying to provide for them on my income and what you are willing to help with is not possible. We will then have to pay for day care.

What I am willing to pay is what the child support calculator suggested. Plus I am willing to continue to make the car payment on the car that she drives.

Any suggestions to a appropriate response is appreciated.

Also shortly after the text she sent a picture of my sons school photos.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
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