Its true, I can't force her to be a mom, but at the same time, if she only wants to see them every other weekends (for her own personal glory). Then I may as well seek full custody with visitation rights for her?
If her priority isn't about the kids, then I need to make sure they have a loving Dad who isn't going to jump into another relationship because our kids are young 8, 5, and 1. I already determined, I won't be in another relationship because trying to squeeze in a new relationship with 3 young boys and work, is almost impossible for me.
I am just so mad about her abandoning the kids or doing what she feels is fair for herself. I understand weekends are important to do the "Fun" stuff, but I also know M-F, i can do "Fun" stuff. During summer vacation, i can take them out M-F with no issues.
If her job was more flexible, we would have more options.
This is her latest response about weekend responsbilities. If she can't get one weekend off (keep in mind, she has M-F with no kids), she will leave them behind.....I mean seriously. What kind of response was that? Ya ya, I know addition to the OM.....
I also can't stop her parents from pissing her off even more. Her dad is basicaly disowning her (he refuses to talk to her). The mom is basically arguing with her all the time about "using your brain" and to stop lying about the OM (W never mentions his name)
Just venting.I am continue doing my 180's, DB and GAL and being the best dad possible.
