help supper confused

[Just A Guy]

You cannot make the sitch better until YOU start to detach... I am on the other side of the fence with the same sitch practically.. I have a W who told me she misses the old me, we dont talk like we used to anymore, we dont have the passion we used to, yada yada yada.....

SO what do you do??? Forget about trying to figure ANYTHING out that they are thinking, doing or saying etc...

1) Become the most attractive, fun, exciting person you can AWAY from him. These are called 180's, they are NOT things to do to try and get him back, they are things you should do to BETTER yourself and bring you back to the person who he fell in love with. Then when you get to that person you will be better off no matter what the outcome.

2) Do some thing which gives you joy, and do it a LOT. This is called Getting a Life or, GAL. For me it has been working out, getting back into managing small businesses and starting a business inventing things. It gives you something to look forward and it brings new passions into your life.

3) READ a LOT of books... Some I recommend besides Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy are;

5 Love Languages

I Love you but I'm Not In Love With You

How To make Friends and Influence People

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert



4) Learn the art of PATIENCE!!

Hope this helps a little...

JAG