I wish he would just realize that the kids are so hurt too and they really dont approve of anything he is doing and they dont have a huge desire to see him.
Let go of that. He won't, at least not anytime soon because that would mean he's wrong and his brain won't let him go there right now. Be there for your kids; love them and support them. They need lots of that right now.
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I guess I will continue to be the "monster" as he called me in front of my kids on Tuesday.
You may not be able to control your H's mind but you can control yours. This is victim thinking and it will keep you stuck.
You can choose to allow others to define you or you can choose to define yourself.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
